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Therapy For Individuals

Therapy Helps You Make Changes with Positive, Lasting Results

I, Dr. Myra Bernecker,  provide therapy for individuals in many different phases of life. Professional working inviduals, students, stay at home parents, and single parents, all face their own set of challenges. I understand first-hand some of the unrealistic pressures and demands on working parents, women, and people from differnt cultural backgrounds.
 
Therapy can help you make the changes you have been dreaming of. Learn to start saying yes to the things you want to do and no when you don’t have time without guilt. The people I work with learn to set better boundaries, communicate more effectively, and take things less personally, so they can feel more connected to the people they love. My clients are able to work on spending more time with themselves. Together, we’ll explore what you truly want so you can live a richer and more meaningful life.
Adjunct ways of I work in depth to faciliate emotional healing and psychological transformation is working with dreams and sandplay.
I also have an adorable, non-shedding, allergy-friendly therapy dog that can be present in your sessions if you’re comfortable with that. The benefits of therapy dogs in sessions include: decreased stress, fears, and anxiety, improved self esteem, mood, coping in social interactions, and cognitive functions. They comfort patients via bodily contact and promote engaging which helps improve skills and trusting relationships.
 
Put YOU Back on Your List
 
It’s not too much to ask to give yourself 45 minutes a week. This is a time that you can count on to be devoted to YOU: your needs, your wants, your desires, your dreams, your health, your wellness, and more. Together, in therapy, I’ll help you prioritize your needs so you can continue to excel.

Common Issues Discussed In Theray for Individuals

Every person has her/his/their own set of unique experiences. We will work on whatever is important to you. Some common topics and issues that commonly come up in with the people I work with are:

  • Anxiety, overthinking & worry
  • Stress
  • Life transitions (graduation, new Job, marriage, new baby) 
  • Grief & loss
  • Parenting stress
  • Relationships
  • Confusing or weird dreams
  • Irritability or frustration
  • Anger or resentment 
  • Avoidance
  • Sleep
  • Depression
  • Responsibility conflicts 
  • Work distress 
  • Cultural issues
  • Self-care
  • Wanting more joy 
  • Learning to say no
  • So much more! 

You might have been raised by parents who loved you dearly, but taught you how to attend to their needs or dismiss yours. For some first generation families, or people who were raised in particular religions or cultures, speaking up was not something that you learned because it was considered talking back or you grew up in a family where children’s needs mattered less. 

How It Works

What To Expect In Session

At the time of your first consultation, we’ll start by getting to know one another. I will ask you what’s on your mind so you can share your story and begin to talk about what you want to work on in therapy. My work is more conversational and  relational, which means what happens between us is important. I create a safe, nonjudgmental space and meet you where you are to help you help yourself. We’ll talk through your history including your early childhood relationships.  In therapy, you’ll have the space to sort things through. Feeling seen, heard & felt is an incredibly healing experiences that I offer my patients

My Approach in Therapy

I help individuals experience relief, gain insight, and a deeper understanding to the roots of their struggles by focusing on the past and present and paying attention to the patterns, symbols, images in their dreams and Sandplay. I teach people how their brain works and impacts their emotions and behaviors. I help my clients see the connection between patterns in relationships and earlier experiences Using a depth-oriented, relational, psychoanalytically-informed, attachment, neuroscience, and mindfulness approach – I help people become more connected to their lives and achieve more harmony.

Frequently Asked Questions

 

What are your hours?

Mon. 11:00 A.M. – 5:00 P.M.

Wed. 11:00 A.M. – 6:00 P.M.

Thurs. 9:00 A.M. – 5:00 P.M.

Fri. 8:00 A.M. – 6:00 P.M.

How long are your sessions?

The initial consultation/evaluation and subsequent therapy sessions are 45 minutes and scheduled at a weekly frequency. Parent collaterals are 45 minutes and scheduled at a monthly frequency or more depending on your needs. Consultation sessions with clinicians are also 45 minutes and are scheduled as frequently as appropriate to suit your needs. Depending on your situation or at various times during your treatment, we may determine to increase that frequency to twice a week or more. 

Are you accepting new patients during COVID-19?

I am accepting child, teen, and adult patients to work in person in my Marin office. I am vaccinated, have a large, ventilated office. Kids, teens, and adults, and parents need to be symptom free and wear a mask inside the building. 

What are your fees, cancellation, and rescheduling policy?

As a licensed psychologist, my fee for an initial evaluation/consultation is $500 for 90 mintues. You may also schedule a free 20-minute consultation using the contact form at the bottom of this page. 

Ongoing psychotherapy, play therapy, parenting therapy, and consultation is $250 for 45-minutes.

I require a 7-day notice for cancelling or rescheduling appointmets. 

Please Note: Under the No Surprises Act, you have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency healthcare services, including psychotherapy services.

Do you accept insurance?

No. But after working with many insurance companies for nearly 20 years, I understand how complex navigating insurance can be. It’s important for you to understand your benefits. I work with patients who want to use their Health Savings Account (HSA) or their out-of-network benefits. Through my secure patient portal, you will have access to all your invoices at any time. Each invoice includes all the information you need to submit any out of network claims. My patients have told me that this access was easy, convenient, and much appreciated.

What types of payment do you accept?

I accept cash, checks, credit cards, and HSA credit cards. 

What do I do if I have an emergency?

Call 911 to go to your nearest emergency room.

If you live in Marin county, you can call the Mobile Crisis Response Team Mon-Sat 1pm-9pm 415-473-6392 or Psychiatric Emergency Services 415-473-6666.

Other resources include:

  • Crisis line 800-273-8255,
  • S.F. Suicide Prevention: (415) 781-0500
  • Warmline: PhoneSupportfor Peers (7 days a week 1pm-9pm) 415-459-6330
How do I know when it’s time to seek help?

A good time to consider seeking professional help is when the strategies you’ve tried are not having much of an effect. If you or your child’s issues significantly interfere with school, work, family, or social life, and if you or your child has experienced symptoms on most days for a month or more, and you or your child is open, curious, and committed, then it is a good time to seek help. 

How can therapy help?

Adults, teens and kids often experience great relief when they express themselves fully and connect well with a trusted therapist. Success may vary depending on the particular issue addressed, how well you or your child is open, honest, and uses the process and feedback, and the extent to which what is learned is practiced outside the sessions. Some of the benefits from therapy include: attaining greater awareness, insight, and deeper understanding for yourself or your child that leads to improved relationships, self esteem, confidence, learning new ways to solve problems at work, school, or in your family, improving communication and listening skills, changing maladaptive behavior patterns

Do you work with kids or adults?

I see both! I see bright, high achieving children and teens who are anxious, grieving, or have low self-esteem. Children and teens do not always know what is happening and have a hard time verbalizing what is going on. I also see adults for individual therapy, parenting therapy, and clinical consultation. Many bright, high achieving adults who worry, have family issues or patterns that continue to challenge them, are coping with a difficult loss, or are experiencing a new or unexpected change find it helpful working with me.

What is play therapy?

Play therapy is a specific type therapy that is designed for kids under 12 years old that helps kids feel better, have improved relationships and behaviors through play. For kids in this age range, playing comes naturally and they are often better at playing than talking. Play therapy gives kids the opportunity to explore, solve problems, and work out difficulties through play. Kids act out the issues that they are upset about and tell their story sybolically through play. I use a sandtray and carefully selected games, toys, art materials, dolls, and figures to help kids open up, learn skills, and process their thoughts and emotions through play. In addition play fosters creativity and imagination. Reserach on play has shown that play positively impacts intellectual ability. By expressing their thoughts and feelings freely and safely verbally or through their play, kids begin to understand themselves and start to feel better.